Advantages of Getting Married to A Person You Already Know

Getting Married to A Person You Already Know

Marriage is one of the most significant chapters in one’s life. It’s a chapter, where a new phase of life begins with new experiences and new life skills. When you have to spend the rest of your life with someone whether you know the person before marriage or not, big changes happen. Living with a person under same roof, like forever means both partners know each other from inside out. You see each other’s best and worst and you choose to live with it, accepting the truth about your life partner. Especially, things become a bit awkward and tough between partners who get married who used to be complete strangers to each other. The reason is the effort that we put in a person to him/her when it’s done already before marriage then spending the rest of the life with the person becomes easy and every emotion comes naturally. The bonding becomes natural and firm unlike marriages that happen between two strangers.

Let’s have a look on the number of advantages of getting married to a person you already know:

1. Trust Factor

When you know a person already and marry them, the trust is already there and it comes naturally that strengthens your relationship. You don’t have to start from square one, spending each days to know a person bit by bit to trust them or gain their trust.

2. Compatibility

Compatibility is a crucial factor which saves a relationship or a marriage. Many marriages just give up because of poor or zero compatibility, in which two different persons have different style of living, different choices, interests, preferences and this destroys the process of understanding and coping with the life partner. Better or full compatibility between two person who know each and marry indeed amplify the relationship and live more happily.

3. Understanding

Marrying a person you know helps you immensely with understanding his/her needs, emotional breakdowns and emotional needs, their next moves, and how they react or respond. Thus, when you know that person already, you understand them better unlike arranged marriages where you have no clue about the partner and you work every single day to understand them which takes a lot of time, which is a great advantage of getting married to person you already know.

4. Familiarity

How weird it feels when you marry a stranger or endure an arranged marriage? Because waking up in the morning with a stranger on your side, or having all your day’s routine along with a new person it becomes a bit weird and tough to deal and live. But, marrying a person whom you already know, gives you a feeling of familiarity. You know them, their habits, and their needs so you don’t feel awkward. 

5. Emotional Bonding

When you already know that person whom you’re going to marry or marry, you already are emotionally connected with that person. You both synchronise emotionally and know exactly what other person needs. This strengthens your marriage firmly.

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6. Arguments and Fights

Every relationship endures rough times and arguments or fights are normal. But when you marry a stranger, you have no idea how to deal with the significant other and calm them down or how to deal with their anger and rough emotions. On the other hand, marrying a person you already know means you know exactly how to calm down your partner and deal with them.

7. Accepting Flaws

When you get married to the person you already know, it means you already know their shortcomings and flaws and you are familiar with their flaws which doesn’t bother you after your marriage helping you deal with your partner and situations sensibly, which is another advantage.

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8. Love

When you marry a person you already know, it means the feeling of love or affection has already been there. Thus, after marriage you don’t have to make efforts on falling in love or connecting emotionally with that person. And when there is already love or affection, the trust factor comes naturally as well.

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Priyadarshini Muduli

A full time passionate writer with imperishable determination to bring healthy, smart and pragmatic changes individually and socially. Concentrate especially on lifestyle, life and personal improvement, relationships, mental health and behavior, viral issues and literature based subjects.

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